In July 2007, I accompanied my boyfriend, Su'a Sulu'ape Freewind, to the Second Borneo International Tattoo Convention in Sibu, where he was an invited guest artist. The convention was organized by our friend Ernesto of Borneoheadhunters Tattoo Studio in Kuching to bring together native tattooists and...

My cousin recently came out to L.A. from the east coast with her boyfriend. They spent one day at Universal Studios--without my knowledge and certainly without my encouragement. But the next day, we'd made plans to get together and they had no preference as to where we went... so I took them to the Page...